Hi new year. I welcome you.

Especially at New Years we find our self making goals, thinking about what we want more of next year or what we can do better. I have been thinking a lot about the new year this year, and since this blog has become (for me anyway) my journal of things I want to remember about life and motherhood and Dayla, I am going to share with you.
The other day we were spending time with a little girl who is about 2 years older than Dayla. She was sweet and smart and eloquent. But being with her gave me a HUGE realization…that is going to be Dayla in just a couple years! I saw for the first time what I hear all the other parents talking about; this little baby/little girl stage is going to fly by quick. That this strong willed little toddler who dances to trance music, who says “foots” instead of “feet”, who calls sunscreen “some-scream”, who laughs with her belly uncontrollably and doesn’t feel any smidgen of self-consciousness; this little girl is going to be just like that other little girl in just a couple of years. In a couple years her “terrible two’s” will seem like a shadow of a memory. Her words will one day be perfect and eloquent. She will start to be self aware and self conscious. At that moment of realization I was able to pull myself out of my life and just look in, as though looking and seeing myself through a window, seeing all the WONDERFUL things about this challenging stage of my toddler’s life, and it made me happy.
So many conversations in our daily life are about the future. In our personal life it is about what and who will Dayla be, are we going to have a house, are we going to have more children. It is so easy to get caught up in that, the dreaming, the guessing, the goal making. Don’t get me wrong, I am a goal person. I love making goals and lists and I get a strange little high when I cross things off my list. No, I am not judging goal makers. I just think for me and my personality it is good to stop making goals sometimes. It is good to just pull back, pull out of the daily routine, the monotony of life, and think of all the things that are going right and the blessings of this moment.
I feel like I could list all of the blessings I have and the things that bring me joy and I could go on and on for pages until your eyes were bleeding and you were bored to tears. There is no need for that. So today I am just going to share my thankfulness for that sweet little girl, who gave me a window to my future, who gave me the opportunity to pull myself out of the hum-drum daily routine of life and look into it from the outside, and feel happy for today. Who helped me see past the challenges, the tantrums, the “no’s” and “mine’s”, and see so much more.
My hope for you as you enter this new year is that you get one of those windows, some kind of moment this year that helps you to stand back and, for just a little while, forget the future and the goal making and the stresses of the day, and just feel the joy of today and the perfection of where you are in your life right now (whether it is where you thought you would be or hoped to be, or not), and feel blessed.
[Cliche or not, every thorn does have a rose at the top…you just have to force yourself to look up sometimes.]
Happy New Year!
Dayla loving some playdough from Nana. Cause these are some of the great simple moments of everyday life I want to savor.

6 thoughts on “Hi new year. I welcome you.”

  1. Such sweet words, Ginette. I totally agree with you. It is best to enjoy what you have right now, rather than always anticipating the future. You are very good at being in the “now”.

  2. I’m impressed with the NEAT shapes she is cutting. So neat for her age! Not like her mother was with playdough. 🙂 It’s fun to see her enjoying it.
    Thanks and love.

  3. Your ‘blogs’ are for me just what you wished for us in the new year – a ‘window’ into life that helps me reflect on the past and present and put my life into perspective. Thank you for all — and HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU

  4. You are a very wise and insightful person. It is wonderful to see you so enjoying being a mom. I hope this will be a happy and adventureous year for you all.
    Much love. Aunt Pat

  5. This is great Ginette. I appreciate this blog entry. For me personally I tend to dream big and set high goels in the end my big dreams/goals don’t get met. I like how you want to enjoy the “NOW” I really want to do this too. thanks again for your awesome blog and inspiring words. Your a quailty person who loves Jesus. I’m glad we are friends =)

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